18 February, 2009

Fail - to Succeed

There is a purpose behind things that happen in life. It may not always be clear as to what the purpose is, but deep down somewhere probably hidden in some un-noticed corner, a small, tiny purpose would be peeping from there.

Failures are stepping stones to success they say; that is because there is a reason to failing. You learn from that incident, you realize various sides to yourself and you understand yourself better. Most people feel that a failure means the end of the world. However, failures actually are of great help if you wish to improve as a person. It is tough, no doubt to face such situations, you may feel low and depressed at times like these... but in the end, seek the value that such incidents present to you.

It may also happen that you may go through a series of failures... it is up to you to pick yourself up and to progress after each fall. You need to go on, you need to keep trying because by trying each time you fail, you  keep gaining strength to move on towards better things in life. It may seem futile at times to keep trying but later when you do achieve a certain goal, you will be proud of yourself for persisting and for having tremendous courage to climb to that seemingly high target you had set for yourself.

Imagine the boost to your spirits !! You will be grateful for having trusting yourself, for believing in yourself, for doing your best, for motivating yourself on, for trying hard to reach that goal and for simply learning from the whole process.

It's going to be an uphill task, but you are rewarded quite well in the end. So keep going, you will find what you rightly deserve in your life.

9 comments:

  1. Congratulations on the big news!! No doubt, this was written at a time of uncertainty and self-doubt; which is why I am so fantastically stupefied at your beautifully clear, strong mind which enabled you to pour this out on paper(er...blog). You did so great, keeping up your spirits through hard times( I cried my eyes out when it happened to me).....I hope I helped with my few grunts and unseen nods.

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  2. Well written. There can not be a short cut to success and every one has to pass through the tunnel called FAILURE.

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  3. Good One, made my spirits go high. Failures are part and parcel of life they must be welcomed the same way success are welcomed. If we dont fail, we never learn!

    Thanks for sharing

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  4. @ Ren: You've always been a valubable person in my life... you've always been of great help! Thank you :)

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  5. @ S.R.Ayyangar: Thank you for dropping in... true, one needs to go through the rough paths to get to the top of the mountain.

    @ Anto: I'm glad my post helped you :) Thank you for reading and for sharing your views with me Anto!

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  6. You know,this is a very vast, deep and funny topic. My two cents - life is not ideal.So the earlier one gets used to it - the better. success and failure are no longer as black n white as they used to be.Everything has but a mix of the other. Time is a big player in all this...

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  7. @ Gyanban: That's a really nice thought process you've noted down here! Will keep it in mind... Thanks for sharing it :)

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  8. How often people give a fight ,crumble and vanish ...but one who persists amidst all odds stands victorious in the end with an increase in his self confidence several notches high...nice article :)

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  9. Quite right Ravindra... it's a wonderful feeling to surpass all obstacles and stand high!!

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